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The Jonathan Martin Case And Bullying

November 8, 2013 Leave a Comment

It’s all over the sports pages, but is it bullying?

I am talking about the allegations of bullying being leveled at Miami Dolphins lineman, Richie Incognito by teammate Jonathan Martin. Earlier this week, Martin’s attorney released this statement in defense of Martin’s action to leave the Dolphins. [Read more…]

Filed Under: Bullying News, Featured, Golden Rule

Golden Rule Pledge listed on DHHS website StopBullying.gov

July 13, 2012 Leave a Comment

The Golden Rule Pledge is now listed on the federal government’s StopBullying.gov website.

This government resource is managed by DHHS and contains a wealth of information for schools, parents and students to help curb bullying.
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Filed Under: Bullying prevention resources, Featured, GLBT, Golden Rule Tagged With: department of health and human services, golden rule pledge, stopbullying.gov

GRP T-shirt ideas – feedback requested

March 24, 2011 2 Comments

Thanks to Michael Frey for these logo ideas for Golden Rule Pledge t-shirts. In the comments section here, or on the Facebook page, please tell us which one you like the best. Any other constructive feedback will be appreciated.

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Golden Rule Pledge on CNN’s Belief Blog

October 6, 2010 Leave a Comment

Dan Gilgoff’s CNN Belief Blog published my article on anti-gay bias involved in recent bullying related suicides. I am allowed to print a little bit and then link to the rest. I hope you’ll read, recommend, and discuss it at both places…

This week marks the beginning of the 5th annual National Bullying Prevention Month. Tragically, this comes just at the time when the nation is mourning the recent suicides of three young teens, Billy Lucas, Asher Brown and Seth Walsh. Although each situation was a little different, a common denominator was that a central feature of the harassment the boys experienced was anti-gay name-calling.
 
Sadly, these boys join a string of other suicide victims who’d been subjected to anti-gay bias.

These tragedies have heightened the attention of the public on an already contentious debate about how to prevent anti-gay harassment. While everyone agrees that such bullying is harmful and must be addressed, not all agree about the means to that end.

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My view is that evangelicals need to put ideological worries aside and become part of the solution.

I go on to describe how churches and schools in Grove City are working together to combat bullying and recommend that adults put the culture war aside for the good of children.

Filed Under: Golden Rule Tagged With: cnn, golden rule pledge

Golden Rule Pledge 2010

February 25, 2010 2 Comments

NOTE: The most recent posts begin after this introduction to the Golden Rule Pledge. Scroll down for more…

 

Don’t walkout, walk along side and be a hero. Don’t preach at gay kids and call it conversation. Instead, walk along side and listen.

The Day of Silence is being observed on Friday, April 16 this year.

On the Day of Silence, many young people around the nation will remain silent at school in order to bring attention to name-calling, bullying and harassment of gay and lesbian students in schools. When other students ask about the reason for their silence, many will hand out a card with the following message:

Please understand my reasons for not speaking today. I am participating in the Day of Silence (DOS), a national youth movement bringing attention to the silence faced by lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender people and their allies. My deliberate silence echoes that silence, which is caused by anti-LGBT bullying, name-calling and harassment. I believe that ending the silence is the first step toward building awareness and making a commitment to address these injustices. Think about the voices you are not hearing today.

DAY of SILENCE – What are you going to do to end the Silence?

We believe these students are asking for and should receive an answer to their question. We believe the answer should be a commitment to mutual respect and safety. The Golden Rule Pledge provides an way to communicate that pledge of respect. In reply to the question asked on the Day of Silence card, students can offer a verbal pledge to treat others with respect and/or a silent reply with a Golden Rule Pledge card.

Some Christian and conservative groups called for a boycott of the Day of Silence in 2008 and 2009, in some cases leading to loud protests. Many of the same groups are calling for a similar boycott this year. Still others are organizing what they call a “Day or Truth.” The DOT event seeks to inform gay students that Christianity does not approve of homosexual behavior via the wearing of T-shirts and passing out of cards. This year this event is being held on April 15, the day before the Day of Silence. We believe this event builds more walls than bridges.

We seek a different approach. The Golden Rule Pledgers will show up at school on both the 15th and 16th and live out the teaching of Christ to treat others as they want to be treated. Rather than engage in debates over beliefs about homosexuality, we advocate a pledge to live by the Golden Rule. This can be offered verbally and/or by giving out a Golden Rule Pledge card.

Please use the contact form to get involved…

Fill out this survey here…

Join the Facebook group here…

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The Golden Rule Pledge on CBN

April 21, 2009 Leave a Comment

This brief report aired on the Christian Broadcasting Network on April 17.

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Hero by Superchick

April 19, 2009 Leave a Comment

This song is emblematic of the Golden Rule Pledge.

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Golden Rule Pledge endorsements

April 16, 2009 1 Comment

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The Golden Rule Pledge has been endorsed by several evangelical leaders. Here are just three…

Andrew Marin, president of the Marin Foundation and author of the new book, Love is an Orientation, recently wrote to endorse the Golden Rule Pledge. Marin said:

I am a full believer in the Golden Rule Pledge. Instead of taking our kids out of school, we have a unique, and wonderful opportunity to be able to teach the next generation of Christians what it means to peacefully and productively build bridges with our gay and lesbian neighbors.

Bob Stith is the National Strategist for Gender Issues with the Southern Baptist Convention. Bob wrote:

Several years ago I stood outside a church which was being picketed by two very vocal and rabid “Christian” groups. Standing on the sidewalk were also some young lesbians doing their own picketing. The first group became more and more vocal in their opposition and insults. They began telling the young women how despicable they were and how God despised them.

At that point I walked over and told the girls, “I am a Christian and I do believe the Bible says homosexual behavior is sin. But I want you to know what these people are saying is wrong. I want to apologize to you and tell God does love you very much. Don’t ever let anyone convince you He doesn’t.”

I have long thought Christians were missing a great opportunity by not being more vocal in helping to make our schools safe places for all kids. It doesn’t require that we compromise our beliefs. Indeed it can give us a great opportunity that we might not otherwise have.

What a wonderful opportunity to express our convictions in a way that is positive, loving and redemptive. What a wonderful opportunity to train our children to care about all people, to model the example of Jesus and the woman at the well.

Who knows but what this could even be the beginning of a movement that will turn the tide of school shootings and violence in the hallways.

Wayne Jacobsen is the publisher of the best-selling book, The Shack. Recently on his Lifestream blog, he wrote:

…many public school students will observe a Day of Silence as a means to protest harassment and discrimination based on sexual orientation or gender identity. It has been going on for almost a decade and many parents who are against ‘the gay agenda’ feel the need to keep their kids home that day, or participate in a Day of Truth that makes sure everyone in their district knows they consider homosexuality to be immoral. Is this the way Jesus would respond.

Perhaps a better way to encourage faith-based students to respond would be to adopt the Golden Rule Pledge. “I pledge to treat others the way I want to be treated.” It allows a pro-active response to sharing the burden to increase mutual respect for all, regardless of our differing points of view.

While she did not endorse the GRP official, Eliza Byard of GLSEN, a sponsor of the Day of Silence, said this about the Goldren Rule Pledge:

The Day of Silence embodies a commitment to everyone being treated with respect — people treating each other as they wish to be treated themselves — and highlights a crucial area of school climate where we currently fall short of that goal. We welcome participation in the Day of Silence of students of all backgrounds and beliefs who recognize and acknowledge this common commitment, and feel that your identification of that common ground is a step forward.

Filed Under: Golden Rule Tagged With: andrew marin, bob stith, day of silence, eliza byard, glsen, golden rule pledge, southern baptist convention, the shack, wayne jacobsen

Contacting the Goldren Rule Pledge organizers

April 14, 2009 1 Comment

For quick information regarding the Golden Rule Pledge, use this email address:

[email protected]

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Download the Golden Rule Pledge cards

April 6, 2009 1 Comment

Goldren Rule Pledge

We have the Golden Rule Pledge cards via .pdf file here. This year we have them in various colors and black and white.

Just print them on card stock (or the paper of choice), cut them out and you are ready to go.

Multiple colors background option

Red background option one

Red background option two

Black and white option one

Black and white option two

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We have the Golden Rule Pledge cards via .pdf file here. This year we have them in various colors and black and white.



Just print them on card stock (or the paper of choice), cut them out and you are ready to go.

Multiple colors background option

Red background option one

Red background option two

Black and white option one

Black and white option two

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